Marriage Counseling Fort Collins, Colorado
Online marriage coaching for couples in Fort Collins and across Northern Colorado. Same coaching, same focus on the two of you, from your own living room.
- Format
- Online video sessions. No office visits.
- Serving
- Fort Collins, Loveland, Windsor, Timnath, Wellington and Northern Colorado
- Who it's for
- Couples, engaged couples, and individuals
- Your coach
- Timothy Shetter, M.S.
- First step
- The Marriage Review
Where most couples start
Marriage help for Fort Collins couples, without the drive.
The short answer: Tim Shetter, M.S., works with couples in Fort Collins and Northern Colorado entirely online. You meet together by secure video from home. Every couple begins with a Marriage Review, where you both complete an assessment and leave with a clear plan for what to work on first.
Most couples who reach out are not in a dramatic crisis. They are tired. The same argument shows up every few weeks wearing different clothes. Someone has started keeping score. The two of you are running a household well and drifting as a couple, and you can both feel it even if neither of you has said it out loud.
A lot of the couples I work with live in Fort Collins and the towns around it. You do not need an office down the road to do this work. You need a plan, a coach who will not take sides, and an hour where the two of you are actually paying attention to the “We.”
In their words
What clients say.
“Thank you so much for your coaching and guidance. We’re doing well, and our relationship is much deeper and stronger because of our sessions with you… Tim, you made a huge difference in our lives. Words don’t come close to expressing our love and gratitude. And you know how good we do at communicating - LOL!!!”
Client
“Tim, you are the only one that got me to open up about myself. Thank you for that… it has helped to this day to be a better Husband, Father and Brother. You are in the right career… To help others!”
Husband, Father
“I met Tim during the most difficult time of my life, and his guidance and mentorship helped me to develop the skills I needed to survive and grow… Tim is exceptionally gifted working with people. I would encourage any man, at any age, and at any stage of life to reach out to Tim and see what he can do for you.”
Father
How I can help
Coaching for Fort Collins couples and individuals
Every service is online and available to couples anywhere in Northern Colorado. Each card opens the full page for that service.
Coaching for Couples
For couples who love each other and keep landing in the same fight.
Learn more CouplesAffair Recovery
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Learn more IndividualsCoaching for Men & Women
One-on-one coaching when the work starts with you.
Learn moreWhat we work on
The things couples actually bring to me
The same fight, again
The topic changes. The pattern underneath does not. We find the pattern.
Feeling like roommates
The logistics run fine. The connection has gone quiet. We bring it back on purpose.
Rebuilding trust
After an affair or a long string of broken promises, trust gets rebuilt one kept word at a time.
Intimacy that has faded
Emotional and physical closeness, talked about honestly and without blame.
Communication that lands
Saying the hard thing so your partner can hear it, and hearing it when it is said to you.
Big transitions
New baby, new job, an empty nest, a move. Seasons that test the team.
Why online works
Same coaching. None of the logistics.
I moved my practice online on purpose, before the pandemic made it normal. Couples are often surprised by how personal it feels. You are in your own space, I can see and hear both of you clearly, and we can meet after the kids are asleep.
For Fort Collins couples that means no fighting College Avenue traffic after work, no waiting room, no babysitter, and no canceling because the roads are bad in January.
- Meet from home, on a secure video call
- No commute, no waiting room, no childcare to arrange
- Works when one of you travels for work
- Both of you are heard. Nobody gets ganged up on.
How it starts
Three steps, and you always know the next one.
Watch the 10-minute Start Here video
See how I work with couples and decide together whether it fits.
Book your Marriage Review & Road-Mapping Session
Two assessments and one session where we look honestly at where your marriage is today.
Leave with a road map
A written plan for what to work on first, and a clear picture of what coaching would look like.
Areas served
Online marriage coaching across Fort Collins and Northern Colorado
Because every session is online, it makes no difference which side of town you live on. These are some of the communities my Northern Colorado couples call home.
- Fort Collins
- Loveland
- Windsor
- Timnath
- Wellington
- Laporte
- Bellvue
- Berthoud
- Severance
- Johnstown
- Estes Park
- Greeley
Somewhere else in Colorado or Arizona? It works the same way. See also Greeley, CO, Prescott, AZ and Scottsdale, AZ.
Who you'll work with
I’m Tim Shetter.
Growth Strategist, Relationship Coach, and Marriage Counselor with more than 18 years of experience helping individuals and couples.
My training is in Marriage and Family Therapy, and my focus has always been the marriage itself. In my work there are three clients in the room: each of you, and the “We.” I will not make one of you the villain. We look at what is happening between you and build from there.
Remember the reasons you chose each other in the first place. Those reasons are not gone. A strong marriage draws on the connection that brought you together, and is built from there one brick at a time.
More about Tim
Questions
Marriage counseling in Fort Collins: common questions
Do you offer in-person marriage counseling in Fort Collins?
No. All of my sessions are online by secure video. Many of the couples I work with live in Fort Collins and Northern Colorado, and they meet with me from home. You get the same coaching without the drive, the waiting room or the babysitter.
Does online marriage coaching really work?
Couples are often surprised by how personal it feels. You are in your own space, I can see and hear both of you clearly, and we can meet at times an office could never offer. What makes coaching work is both of you showing up and doing the work. The screen does not change that.
Do you work with couples in Loveland, Windsor, Timnath or Wellington?
Yes. Because everything is online, I work with couples across Northern Colorado, including Loveland, Windsor, Timnath, Wellington, Laporte, Berthoud and Greeley.
Is this marriage counseling or marriage coaching?
It is marriage coaching. My training is in Marriage and Family Therapy, and I bring that background to the work, but what I offer is coaching focused on the two of you and your marriage. It is not a substitute for therapy for an individual mental health condition.
How do we get started, and what does it cost?
Every couple starts with a Marriage Review. You both complete an assessment, we meet for one session, and you leave with a clear plan for what to work on first. You can see the details and book on the Marriage Review page.
What if my spouse is not sure about coaching?
That is common, and it is not a reason to wait. Start with the short video on the Start Here page and watch it together. Many hesitant partners relax once they see that I do not take sides. The marriage is the client, not either one of you.
Ready when you are
Experience HOPE for an exciting, happy and connected marriage, from right here in Fort Collins.
Start with the 10-minute video. When you are both ready, book your Marriage Review.
Start Here →