Marriage counseling
Marriage Counseling. You’ve built a life together. You want to feel connected in it.
Maybe you keep having the same argument. Maybe you rarely fight, but the closeness has quietly faded. You can both be working hard for your family and still feel lonely, misunderstood, or unsure how to reach each other.
We start by understanding where your marriage stands, what each of you is experiencing, and what you want to build together.
Watch the 10-minute Start Here video →Where the work starts
A clearer picture. A direction you can share.
Whether you argue or quietly pull apart, patterns develop in how you respond to each other, handle pressure, and reach for connection. You may recognize parts of the pattern without knowing how to change it together.
The TRIM relationship assessment helps us understand where your marriage is strong, where connection is being lost, and what deserves attention first. Then we build a road map toward the marriage you want.
Not just talk. A measured baseline, a plan, and a way to see it move.
What your Marriage Review gives you
- A clearer picture of where your marriage stands today
- The pattern named, with no scorekeeping and no verdict on who’s to blame
- Shared priorities based on what you want to build together
- A personalized road map and a clear next step
How it works
A clear starting point. A plan for moving forward.
Watch the Start Here video
Everyone starts here. In ten minutes you see how I work with couples, what the Marriage Review & Road-Mapping Session involves, and whether it fits, so there is no phone call to schedule first. Watch together, or watch it yourself first and share it with your partner. When you are ready, the page takes you to the session details and booking.
Watch the videoComplete the TRIM assessment
After booking your Marriage Review & Road-Mapping Session, each of you completes the assessment separately, about 45 minutes each. Both perspectives matter. I review your results before we meet so we can begin with a clearer understanding of your marriage.
Marriage Review & Road-Mapping Session
An in-depth 90 to 120 minute working session built on your TRIM results and what each of you wants for your marriage. Together, we identify what needs attention, clarify your priorities, and build a personalized road map for moving forward.
Put the plan into practice
If we agree that working together is a good fit, I’ll invite you into the coaching path that fits your needs. The Marriage Map you receive from your Review stays alive as we work, updated as things change. It helps us see progress, identify what needs attention, and adjust the road map.
Online, scheduled around your calendar, built to produce a clear picture quickly.
What couples bring
Different struggles. A shared desire to feel close again.
Life works. Connection gets the leftovers.
Work, kids, schedules, responsibilities. You keep everything moving, but there is little left for each other. Your relationship deserves a protected place in that life, rather than waiting for a gap that never comes.
You’re both trying. Neither feels appreciated.
One of you feels unseen for everything you do. The other misses what all that effort was supposed to make possible. We make room for both experiences and work toward care that each of you can recognize.
The conversations keep going nowhere.
One pushes to talk, the other pulls away, or both end up defending a position. Learning to recognize the pattern and steady the conversation gives you a way to face the problem together.
There are things you’ve stopped saying.
Keeping the peace has started to mean keeping things to yourself. We work on making room for honesty, differences, and the concerns that have been difficult to bring up.
You miss feeling wanted.
You may still depend on each other, but affection, warmth, and feeling chosen have faded. The goal is connection you can feel in ordinary moments: attention, affection, and signs that you still choose each other.
Old hurt keeps entering the room.
A small disappointment can carry the weight of everything that came before it. We work on understanding those reactions, repairing hurt, and rebuilding trust through reliable actions.
Where you want to go
What would you like your marriage to feel like?
Being able to count on each other. Having a difficult conversation without losing the whole evening. Feeling wanted, appreciated, and free to be yourself. Making decisions as partners and building a future you both want.
Your priorities will be your own. The Marriage Review helps us connect where you are now with what you want your marriage to become, so the work has a direction that matters to both of you.
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In their words
What clients say.
“Thank you so much for your coaching and guidance. We’re doing well, and our relationship is much deeper and stronger because of our sessions with you… Tim, you made a huge difference in our lives. Words don’t come close to expressing our love and gratitude. And you know how good we do at communicating - LOL!!!”
Client
“Tim, you are the only one that got me to open up about myself. Thank you for that… it has helped to this day to be a better Husband, Father and Brother. You are in the right career… To help others!”
Husband, Father
“I met Tim during the most difficult time of my life, and his guidance and mentorship helped me to develop the skills I needed to survive and grow… Tim is exceptionally gifted working with people. I would encourage any man, at any age, and at any stage of life to reach out to Tim and see what he can do for you.”
Father
Questions
Before you start
What if my partner is hesitant?
You can start by watching the video yourself. If the approach makes sense to you, share it and invite your partner to tell you what they think. You don’t need to agree about everything that is wrong before exploring help.
Before moving into the couples process, both of you need to be willing to participate and bring your own perspective. The video gives you a way to explore the approach before deciding together. If your partner isn’t ready, reach out anyway and we’ll talk about options.
Do you take insurance?
No. I don’t bill insurance, so there is no diagnosis, no treatment record, and no insurance company deciding what your marriage needs. You get the Marriage Review & Road-Mapping Session at one flat fee. Click here to read more.
What does it cost?
The Marriage Review & Road-Mapping Session is $350, one flat fee covering both TRIM assessments, my review time before we meet, and the full session. Ongoing coaching is by invitation after the Review. Watch the 10-minute Start Here video. It walks you through the session, and you can book from there.
Do I need to talk with you before booking?
No. The Start Here video covers how I work, what the session involves, and whether it’s a fit, and it answers most questions before you book anything. If something is still unclear after watching the video and reading the FAQ page, email me and I’ll respond as soon as I have availability.
Where to start
Stop guessing. Start with a clear picture.
You don’t have to figure out the whole path today. Start with the ten-minute video to understand how I work and what the Marriage Review & Road-Mapping Session involves. It answers most questions before you book anything.
Watch the 10-minute Start Here video →Reading this on your own? Watch it first, then share it with your partner and ask what they think.
Have questions first? Read the FAQs.
